Old men chasing young women: A good thing

“It turns out that older men chasing younger women contributes to human longevity and the survival of the species, according to new findings by researchers at Stanford and the University of California-Santa Barbara.”

From www.scienceblog.com

8 Responses

  1. One of many replies from the original article:

    Requiem for the modern woman, by PJ

    For you, who are old, and have seen days when men were men and women were women, I grieve for all you have lost. And for those among you that have joined with where Feminist’s have led you, I grieve that your life is a shadow of what it could have been.

    For you young women, coming up and inheriting the stale, left-overs of the once great causes of feminism, I grieve for you that your life has no meaning but to find some way to feel good enough about yourself. I grieve that the most comforting males in your life are a dog named “Butch” and a cat which has been neutered. I grieve that you have come to appreciate and care for all animals more than you do for any man. And I grieve that your closest intimate companion has become that which uses sized “C” batteries for sales of these electronic companions have never been higher in recorded history.

    Yes, you could have had it all, but now you barely hold it together relying on your closest allies of Prozac, Paxil, and shallow sex.

    I grieve for those who are “successful” in business, for I know many of you. I have seen how empty the victory is of the corner office as you sacrifice all that is good about family to take that spot from a suitable male candidate; all under the guise that you need to work to help your husband afford the house, when it is you and only you that must have the impressive home, the $400 lamps and the BMW.

    And even though you have, and will make many an unsuspecting man a miserable soul, still, I grieve for you. For in the end, these lies that you have bought into handed down by your mothers, sister and girlfriends will cost you any shred of happiness that you could have had.And to those women, whom none among you had any anti-men agenda, who look around bewildered of why things are the way they are, for you, perhaps, I grieve the most.

    For the sins of those who came before you have taken away all that you could have had, and have changed the face of those who could have loved you along with it. You find emnity, and understand not why, and to this, I can only speak of tragedy.

    And finally, I grieve for all women. You had the best of worlds. All rewards of being a mother, and all of the protections that a man could offer you, overflowing with chivalry as each man looked to his families welfare. You all, collectively either authored, or bought into the lie, and doing so, you, not men, have been responsible for bringing all of society down. For in time and memoriam, women have been the keepers of the moral high-ground. They have been the authors of gentleness and affection. But all that lay in ruins now, traded away for a cheap substitute of emptiness and confusion.

    But today’s battle cries of feminists now dead fall deafly upon brittle autumn leaves of your lives. Little comfort does come forth from knowing that the once proud cries that women will no longer be sex objects, has lead to all of you becoming, exactly that, and nothing more. For today’s woman cultivates nothing else. Not kindness, not affection. Not self-sacrifice, nor tenderness. Not artfulness and dedication in cooking or cleaning, nor anything that used to be associated with the wonderful things that women could bring to the table.

    It is you, and not men at all, that have turned yourselves into pure sex objects by offering nothing else. And for this, I am truly sorry for you. Even so sorry as to feel pity for the most despicable among you, who for oppportunity and revenge, rape a man of dignity through laws, manipulation, or denial. For your lot shall be that of the king that took everything, and then laid down to die because he realized he had in fact gained, nothing. For raping those who would be your protectors and your knights will never bring you satisfaction, and will instead bring you an even greater measure of self-hatred than you already have.

    For this, and all things that you are not, and never will be, I grieve. For men will go on. We will rebuild our lives, and we will take back what the worst of you has taken from us.

    But your chances to be more than you are will never come again. The Pandora’s box of all that is hateful about you has been opened, and those demons can never be put back in the box. And I can think of nothing more regretful, nor heart-wrenching than this greatest of losses.

    And so, today, as you go forth on your way, complain not that the man in front of you did not hold the door, lay down his jacket, nor put you in the lifeboat. This is the world that you and those women who came before you asked for, and it is their legacy that you are living now. Hate not men for this, for men were never the foes that your ancestors made them out to be. But all this knowledge is now lost, replaced by the sign swinging over the building in the ghost town of where love, joy and hope once lived. PJ

    From: StormWatcher

  2. These guys are poets?

    One of many replies from the original article:

    anti-feminism makes you sexy
    June 9, 2009 by Anonymous, 3 weeks 2 days ago
    Comment id: 37152

    there is a reason why old women are hostile to this idea. They are also hostile to the idea of an American male marrying foreign women. This hostility often sounds like your typical women-hating-women jealousy crap, or maybe it is expressed as racism. How many women have you heard call an Asian girl a slut when she is dating an african american or caucasion? Older single women
    are having a hard time finding men who are serious about marriage.

    I watch my brothers get screwed in court, lose their kids, assets, and income. I watch them forced to send money to their ex-wife’s boyfriend(s). I hear all of them complain about not having sex after marriage (usually because either or both are too damned tired), but sometimes they get cutoff almost immediately after the ceremony.

    Possibly the worst is child support for a child that is not yours. The cases of women lying about being on birth control, or having your baby without your consent. There is a trend that nobody wants to admit. Modern feminist women are crappy wives. They cheat with immature alpha males- hence the growing forever-bachelor pick up artist population. They treat the real men like crap.

    They snipe and nag until he gives in to keep the peace. Once she has his testicles in a jar over the mantle, she loses respect and the attraction is no longer there. The only thing left is the money. So she leaves him and takes half. The worst offense of them all- they put career over their kids. The division of labor in the household is extinct. We have sloppy houses and kids fed on a constant stream of fast food or frozen crap. Honestly, is this how you remember growing up?
    Ladies- you can fixate your anger on us.

    Call us perverts, call us immature, etc. All your aguments here don’t seem to be changing my mind. I am one of those elusive men that you can’t find. 42yo widower, married for 22 years, who was primary caregiver to a woman who suffered more and longer than anyone should. Luckily we married young and she was a true believer in traditional marriage. We had bliss while she was with us. We barely ever fought- and when we did, we followed the rules given to us by our chaplain when we were first married. It was a very very rare thing.

    Anyway- there is an answer out there to your question- “What happened to all the good men?”
    - the Answer is this:
    You did.

    and do you know how to fix it? I will tell you, but you will call me a sexist – here it is:
    Play to your strengths and let men play to our strengths. I will love you, protect you, and provide for you. In return you will be supportive and nurturing. you will take child raising seriously. We’re talking about cooking meals, cleaning the house, and teaching our children. Anything less is a career woman or just plain lazy. I personally have no issue with career women- I have some close friends who have taken that path. But don’t wake up one day after living the “Sex in the City” lifestyle and decide that I’m your guy. Guess what- I have no use for you.

    I don’t need your money and I don’t need your sex. If that is all you offer, then the risk is just too great. What I need is what nature gave you- your maternal instincts. Whether you admit it or not, what you need is my paternal instincts. So- if you want to compete with the foreign and younger ladies- just write down these traits and start working on them. -or you could hang out with your bitter girlfriends and have misandry hate parties. I wonder how long that will make you happy.

  3. more drama;

    One of many replies from the original article:

    June 8, 2009 by Anonymous, 3 weeks 3 days ago
    Comment id: 37115

    I am almost 38 and am in love with a woman who is 23. I didn’t think I would want to get married again, nor have anymore kids. I have since changed my mind completely. I would love to father her children and be there to raise them together. Nothing would make me happier! I am absolutely smitten by this girl :)

  4. more, more drama;

    One of many replies from the original article:

    June 8, 2009 by Anonymous, 3 weeks 3 days ago
    Comment id: 37113

    I’m madly in love with a man 38 years my senior, and I’m nineteen. I come from a respectable family, as does he. Although I am considered a step-grandmother now, I cannot help how I feel. Nor can he. He hates himself for being so enthralled with me. Neither one of us understands how it happened, but we are incredibly happy together. I’ve been with him a little over a year now, and just keep liking him more and more. If I could walk away and not look back, maybe I would. But is it so wrong for two people to simply be united by things beyond them? What is so wrong with two people feeling loved and wanted together, completely in bliss?

  5. pure drama;

    One of many replies from the original article:

    pete

    May 31, 2009 by Anonymous, 4 weeks 4 days ago
    Comment id: 36954

    To all you women who think an older man loves you: he doesn’t. He likes younger pussy, that’s all and as soon as your cuntflaps drag on the ground, he’ll be onto a newer model. You’ve got father issues you chicks – see a psychiatrist, then try to get someone closer to your own age.

  6. LOL;

    One of many replies from the original article:

    PS*
    May 31, 2009 by Anonymous, 4 weeks 4 days ago
    Comment id: 36950

    Oh and a note to you young girls who “love the old guys”. 90% of you are home wreckers weather you want to admit it or not. Unless a woman has a ton of time and money, once she’s had kids, there is no way a woman 30+ can compete with someone in their 20’s who is looking for a “mature” guy, and when you look, dad’s gonna look back. By the time you realize you made a mistake, you’ll be in your 30’s and no one will want you.

    50% of you will realize within a few years that you’ve wasted your youth on an old fart who you now have to bathe, or cook “special” food for.

    5% of you will be grossed out after a few months.

    30% will realize after a few years that the Viagra doesn’t make up for shear exhaustion, and wonder why when your friends are having babies, or are going places, you’re sitting home looking at his teeth in a glass.

    10% of you will be widows soon, (and, oh yeah, his kids get everything while you’re out on your ear.)

    5% of you will be happy, but you had really low self esteem to begin with.

  7. drama;

    One of many replies from the original article:

    Regarding: Older men not good for fathering children
    May 26, 2009 by Anonymous, 5 weeks 2 days ago
    Comment id: 36867

    What a lie!!!
    men over 40 are very fertile and 100% good. At that age a man can give a woman everything that she needs. And so you get Rid of the nagging wife syndrome. You know they are nagging because they are lacking something. Something that a younger man will never be able to supply. And it’s not all about sex. But if it was older men would make better lovers because of thier confidense and do better with younger women because of thier looks

  8. Dam;

    One of many replies from the original article:

    Women, the sadder sex
    March 21, 2009 by Anonymous, 14 weeks 5 days ago
    Comment id: 35500

    I read an aritcle that said that there has been a dramatic increase in the suicide rate of middle aged women in the past few decades. Another said that studies show that after middle age, men were more happy and satisfied with life than women

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